Open thread: The fetishization of suffering

July 20, 2017 • 1:39 pm

by Grania

Jerry wrote a post years ago on Mother Teresa that has proved to be the most popular post ever on this website (even more popular than the one on penis sizes, which is quite remarkable given that this is humanity we are talking about). Jerry pointed out, as did Christopher Hitchens before him and Aroup Chatterjee before that, that the sainted nun had a bizarre and twisted taste for suffering. Only the religiously convicted or a sadist could spin terminal illness and pain as something to be valued.

When I see people suffer, I feel so helpless! It’s difficult, but the only way I find is to say, “God loves you.”
I always connect this by saying to them, “It’s a sign He can kiss you.”
I remember I told this to a woman who was dying of cancer with her small children surrounding her. I didn’t know which was the greater agony: the agony of leaving the children, or the agony of her body.
I told her, “This is a sign that you have got so close to Jesus on the Cross that He can share His Passion with you, He can kiss you.”
She joined her hands and said, “Mother, please tell Jesus to stop kissing me.” She understood so beautifully! My Life for the Poor

Mother Teresa was by no means alone in her idealization of physical and mental anguish. Many religions have rituals that are abusive and damaging  ranging from the relatively benign whirling Dervishes (Mevlevi) whose ritual spinning creates a giddy “spiritual” euphoria, to self-flagellation and slashing practiced by several religions.

I was raised as a Catholic, and while I can say that Mother Teresa’s views are not representative of all Catholics’; she was not an outlier either. Some people still actually think like this. There are times I wish that I had done Psychology 101 at university just to make sense of all the masochism that goes into this kind of thought.

On top of this, as John Hamill points out, the organisation that these people belong to controls thousands of schools and hospitals around the world. Wrap your head around this and you can start to see why their anti-Choice, anti-contraception, anti-euthanasia and anti same-sex equality activists are utterly unmoved by the extreme suffering that their positions create.

PS: Thank you Jerry for giving me zero hours warning about writing a post.

 

Open thread number 2

July 5, 2017 • 10:00 am

Here’s your second discussion question of the morning; this one is political:

What do we do about North Korea?

You probably heard that yesterday North Korea launched what seems to be a two-stage Intercontinental Ballistic Missile (ICBM).   Here’s a photo of it released by the DPRK:

(from NYT): A photograph released by North Korea’s official news agency on Tuesday that is said to show the intercontinental ballistic missile being launched. Credit Korean Central News Agency

As the New York Times reports;

The North Korean missile departed the Banghyon airfield in the northwestern town of Kusong and flew 578 miles before landing in the sea between North Korea and Japan, the South Korean military said in a statement. The American military said it remained aloft for 37 minutes.

While the North has made significant progress in its weapons programs, experts believe it cannot make nuclear warheads small enough to be mounted on ICBMs. Still, American policy makers have long seen just the development of an ICBM as a critical threshold the North should not be allowed to cross.

Now the missile was launched more or less vertically, but had it been aimed horizontally, it could have traveled much farther, making the U.S. worry that it could reach Alaska, and all of us worry it could reach Japan. But we needn’t worry about South Korea, for that’s a done deal: the North already has enough missiles aimed at their neighbor to destroy Seoul (just 35 miles from the border) and other cities.

The North Korean launch was a violation of UN Security Council regulations, and that body will have an emergency meeting this week. But of course nothing will happen. The only thing that can have an influence on the DPRK is China, which has already imposed some minor sanctions on thje North. But given their increasing alliance with Russia, I don’t think China is very willing to go to bat for the U.S. or its Western allies.

A military attack, which Trump has made noises about, is useless.  If we tried a preemptive strike, it would not only kill thousands of innocent and oppressed North Korean people, but would result in a massive counterattack on South Korea, with DPRK missiles raining down on Seoul and the millions of soldiers in North Korea’s huge army pouring over the border. It would be a debacle, with millions killed just because the DPRK is building missiles that it probably wouldn’t use (they’re not suicidal!). Those missiles are a threat and a bargaining chip, but few people believe that Kim Jong-un is dumb enough to launch a unilateral attack on the U.S.—or anyone else.

Sanctions aren’t working; UN resolutions aren’t working; and the threat of a preemptive strike isn’t working. What can be done?

My view is: nothing. All we can do is importune the Chinese to crack down harder on North Korea, but you’re a fool if you think that will stop the DPRK’s missile program, which will soon produce nuclear warheads. Their missile program is the only bargaining chip the DPRK has, but it’s not working that well for them unless they think it’s deterring a U.S. attack (it isn’t: the real deterrent is the North’s missiles and soldiers threatening South Korea).

Is there anything we can do? Discuss.

Open thread number 1

July 5, 2017 • 8:45 am

I’ll be gone for a bit this morning, though I want to post about two people’s opinion pieces later today (Bill Nye and Lindy West). In the meantime, please discuss among yourselves these two questions, which I’ll post in successive posts.

This one was suggested by Grania after I had sent her several emails and comments for this site that were just plain nasty (I haven’t put them up). The question is this:

Why are some people jerks on the Internet?

These are the same people who would be polite, or at least civil, if you met them in a public place. Yet many of them abandon this civility when they’re writing comments on the Internet. Anonymity, of course, is one part of an answer—if you don’t have to be held responsible for your words, then you can say whatever you want. But that presumes that beneath the veneer of civility that enables us to discourse in public, there are many people who would gladly tell you to “fuck off”, “die in a fire” or “stick a porcupine up your fundament”. Is that the case? Is the Internet telling us what people are really like? (I’m not referring to commenters here, who abide by a code of civility; the nasty ones never appear.)

Grania added that it might be good to ask how to “de-escalate a jerk one meets online.” Or should one bother? I’ve rarely seen a nasty argument on the Internet in which one person says, “Yes, I was wrong.” I know it rarely happens here, but on the other hand I also know that readers often use the comments to educate, not to battle.

Discuss.

 

Open thread: Kathy Griffin resorts to the Old White Guys canard

June 3, 2017 • 10:00 am

by Grania

I think by now everybody is familiar with the event of the week where comedian Kathy Griffin decided that holding a prop of a bloody severed head of Donald Trump was a fine moment of political commentary and comedy.

Regardless of political persuasion, people generally reacted with distaste and revulsion, the image perhaps a little too close a reminder of the mindless savagery of ISIS and those of a similar ilk, and CNN fired her within 24 hours.

I find it hard to believe that she did not think that people would react to her stunt with outrage or distaste. If a right-wing comedian (is there such a thing in the US?) had done the same with a severed prop head of Barack Obama there would have been nation-wide outrage and op eds about systemic racism, charges of white supremacy and doubtless, demands that the perpetrator lose their job. That’s guaranteed. After all, there are plenty of people on the political left calling for professor Bret Weinstein to lose his job on charges of imaginary racism.

At her most recent appearance with her lawyer Lisa Bloom, Kathy Griffin broke down but maintained that she was the one being bullied and that she was being silenced by a bunch of old white guys.

In my opinion, if your very public behaviour is such that your employer no longer wishes to tolerate you, that is not censorship. Griffin does feminism no favour at all when she tries to absolve herself of the consequences of her actions and blame it all on the patriarchy.  At least Milo Yiannopoulos had sufficient dignity to apologise and move on when he found he had trespassed over the bounds of what his employer was prepared to tolerate.

Is Kathy Griffin the perpetrator or the victim?

Open thread: Lahore, Pakistan

March 30, 2016 • 9:00 am

by Grania

There have been two really good articles that I have read since the appalling violence in Pakistan. The first is by Kunwar Khuldune Shahid writing in The Guardian.

It is a very clearly written analysis of the religious and political tensions in Pakistan and why this is happening.

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It has been pointed out by numerous commentators both here and elsewhere that blasphemy laws endanger members of minority religious groups wherever they exist. They are used to intimidate and oppress vulnerable minorities and for that reason alone, blasphemy laws should be consigned to the rubbish bin of history, wherever you find them, and no matter how benign they may appear on the surface.

The second piece you should read is by Maajid Nawaz in The Daily Beast where he examines this attack against the global backdrop of jihadist civil wars.

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On a slightly tangential note, Wahhabism is one of the main exports of Saudi Arabia, long-time ally of many Western nations and recently the darling of the UN and more specifically the UN Human Rights Council. In a deeply troubling move, it appears that Saudi Arabia has managed to convince the UN to remove any overt mention LGBT rights and equality from its Sustainable Development Goals.

Although one is tempted to dismiss the UN as irrelevant, it nevertheless has a certain global influence and cannot be ignored. Any attempt to walk back progress made to equality needs to be highlighted and opposed as vocally as possible.

 

Open thread: When progress isn’t really progress at all

March 20, 2016 • 12:30 pm

by Grania Spingies

Jerry sent me this link a few days ago from the HuffPost Religion section: Afghanistan Women’s Soccer Team Unveils Jerseys With Hijabs. The article details a new uniform for the women players designed by Danish company Hummel which features a hijab that will ensure that women will remain covered in public while playing their sport.

Afghani national soccer team player Shabnam Mabarz, seen from behind, watches as Khalida Popal, the former Afghanistan national women's team captain, heads the ball in Copenhagen on Tuesday, March 8, 2016. The new Afghanistan national women's soccer team uniform was revealed on Tuesday, featuring an integrated hijab. (AP Photos/Jan M. Olsen)
Afghani national soccer team player Shabnam Mabarz, seen from behind, watches as Khalida Popal, the former Afghanistan national women’s team captain, heads the ball in Copenhagen on Tuesday, March 8, 2016. (AP Photos/Jan M. Olsen)

This sort of article simultaneously fills me with hope and frustration.

I’m very pleased that more women in Afghanistan will get an opportunity to participate in a sport they love and compete in matches with their sisters around the world. It makes me sad when I see this uniform described as “very best of the country’s traditions and heritage” or as “enabling players to maintain the modesty of their dress“.

Back in the 1970s and 1980s women in Afghanistan did not have to wear the hijab or cover their limbs in public places, not even if they had very high profile jobs.

This is Dr. Anahita Ratebezad, who was Afghanistan’s first female ambassador (1978).

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She graduated from Kabul University’s Medical School in 1962. She was elected to Afghan parliament in 1965.

No hijab, no talk of the modesty (or lack thereof) of her dress either it seems. In fact as has been documented all over the place,  Afghanistan was a very different place in the 20th century to what it has become since that century’s closing decade.

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Picture taken in 1962 at the Faculty of Medicine in Kabul of two Afghan medicine students listening to their professor. AFP/Getty Images

When Western media covers these sorts of news items I wish there was a little less polite fawning over how clever it is, and a little more honest reporting pointed out the glaring regression that Women’s Rights in certain parts of the world have undergone in the last 50 years. Progress should move things forward, it shouldn’t have to try to catch up with the past.

That’s what annoyed me this week. What annoyed you?

Open thread: for the day that’s in it

March 17, 2016 • 1:55 pm

by Grania

Recommend something to read or something to watch

With Jerry presumably in bed (it is late at night in India), it may be several hours before he can check in with us.

In the meantime, here’s my recommendation for something to read or watch.

Nick Cohen writes on the state of universities as places for free exchange of ideas.

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If you enjoy Cohen’s take on  this problem, you should try to get a copy of his interesting and sometimes eerily prophetic book What’s Left?

Nick Cohen also did a very good interview with Dave Rubin a few months ago. It makes for fascinating discussion, particularly as Cohen’s perspective is European rather than American and examines the phenomenon in comparison to similar trends on the historic Socialist Left.

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