We’re back with Caturday posts, though I’m not sure how many people read them. We have three this week and two—count them, two—items for lagniappe, including a nice book on big cats from the University of Chicago Press that’s about 80% off.
From Newsweek we have the key signs your cat loves you, but I should append a trigger warning: What if you find your cat doesn’t love you? Proceed with caution, and click headline (or link in the preceding sentence) to go there
Here’s the whole list, and you probably know it:
Headbutting
Some cats might rub their head back and forth across your legs or arms as you pet them. Owners might think nothing of it, but this process is a cat’s way of marking their territory.
“Cats have scent glands on their heads, so when they headbutt you, they’re leaving their scent on you,” Howard said.
They’re claiming you as part of their social group, Howard said. Take it as a compliment, especially since they won’t do it to everyone. You’ve made it into the inner circle of cat love.
Kneading
Also known as making biscuits, kneading occurs when a cat rhythmically presses its paws in a back-and-forth motion. This can be done on a blanket, pillow, or even a person’s arms and legs.
Howard said this behavior starts when they are kittens. Cats use their paws on their mother’s stomach to signal they want milk, which helps stimulate milk production.
This is my favorite one since there are lots of videos showing cat kneading in conjunction with a Mexican song featuring Tin Tan that I love, “El Panadero” (“The Baker”). Here’s one of the videos, but do listen to the “El Pandero” song too, or even watch the movie it’s from (“¡Ay amor… cómo me has puesto!”); it’s for free here on FB.
@peachie.cass 👩🏻🍳🍞🥐 the baker with the bread got a new truck! #baker #chefgary #cat #chefcat
Purring
“If you’re petting a cat and they enjoy being petted, say behind their cheeks or behind the ears, you can stimulate purring,” Howard said.
Purring makes cats feel calm and secure. The purring can build a bond between felines and their humans.
Not only does a cat’s purr help them, but it can also aid humans. The frequency of a cat’s purr, usually between 25 to 150 hertz, has therapeutic effects on a person’s body and mind, according to an article from Inspira Health Network. Similar to sound therapy, purring can help reduce inflammation, improve circulation, stimulate healing of damaged tissues and promote regeneration of bone cells. Plus, a cat’s purr might help regulate the autonomic nervous system.
Chirping
Instead of a meow, you might notice your feline friend making a distinct, high-pitched chirp. This chirping behavior might start when felines are young. Howard said it is their way of communicating with their mother. If a cat chirps at you, it can mean they want you to follow them, they’re saying hello or they simply want your attention.
Nipping
Howard added that a cat’s “love bites” or nipping are not meant to cause pain. Instead, these slight pinches are used while showing affection and bonded feelings.
Nipping is also linked to grooming behaviors. For example, two cats might groom each other. The affection can build up and lead to a slight nip at each other. However, this is not a forceful bite.
Licking
Similarly to nipping, licking is a way a cat shows their love for someone. They lick their humans because they want to groom them, Howard said. They view you as one of their own.
Bringing gifts
Sometimes cats will bring you gifts, toys and even prey, such as birds or small animals. This is their way of showing you they want to share, Howard explained. They see you as their family. It started when their mothers taught them to bring food back when they hunted.
It could also mean they just want to play. Some cats might bring you a toy, drop it in front of you and move it with their paw. They’ll chase after it if someone throws it.
Exposing Belly
A cat’s belly is a vulnerable spot for them but, with the right person, a cat will expose their belly.
“All of their organs are out in the open – stomach, kidney, heart – as both prey and predator, so for a cat to go on their back and show you their belly, they trust you not to hurt them,” Howard said.
Tail Position
The last signal of a cat’s love is the way they hold their tail, although Howard said this could be difficult to determine, as the way their tail is positioned can have multiple meanings.
A tail up and curled means they are confident in a space. They feel secure. A slightly curled and forward tail usually indicates a cat is relaxed.
“If coming toward you with their tail up and curled, they really like you and they recognize you as a positive social interaction,” Howard said.
I thought the “slow blink” was another sign, but it’s not above. But exposing the belly, well, that definitely means love.
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Does this headline from petMD obey Betteridge’s Law of Headlines, which says that title questions are always answered “no”. And, indeed, it’s true in this case. Click to read:
An excerpt:
. . . .do cats hold grudges, or is something else at play? Understanding a cat’s behavior can be confusing, and in many ways, seeing the world from their perspective is even harder.
“I doubt you’ll find anyone who says cats are the easiest species to understand, but I’ve never met a cat that wasn’t worth the effort,” says Maggie Placer, DVM, veterinary science program manager at EveryCat Health Foundation.
With that, Placer takes us inside the feline mind to explore whether cats truly hold grudges—or if their behavior is driven by something entirely different.
A grudge is a deep, persistent emotion tied to a perceived wrongdoing, says Joey Lusvardi, CCBC, a mental health physician assistant and founder of Class Act Cats, a Minneapolis-based feline behavior consultancy.
“Grudges involve a variety of different unpleasant emotions: hurt, anger, resentment, jealousy,” he explains. Humans often hold grudges as a way to protect themselves from future pain or disappointment.
Do Cats Hold Grudges?
In short, no—cats don’t hold grudges the way humans do.
Lusvardi explains that cats don’t have a sense of morality. In other words, concepts like right and wrong don’t shape their behavior. Dr. Placer agrees, adding, “Cats go off fact, not interpretation.”
So before you attribute your cat’s behavior to ill intent, it’s important to recognize that it may actually be a natural and species-appropriate response. “They are processing a change in their routine and territory—one that they definitely didn’t sign off on,” Dr. Placer says.
However, cats do remember unpleasant things, like people hurting them, and can avoid them in the future. Dr. Placer admits that more or less, and I count that as a grudge.
There’s no longer a question of how long cats hold grudges—because they don’t hold them at all. Still, Dr. Placer says not to underestimate what cats remember.
. . . . Cats remember negative experiences, too. Those adopted from bad situations may struggle to trust again—not out of resentment, but due to survival instincts.
. . . . Cats don’t dwell on resentment, and they’re certainly not waiting for an apology. Instead, their behavior often stems from stress, fear, or anxiety. The key to helping them isn’t making amends—it’s creating a sense of security and breaking any negative associations they’ve formed with you or other objects, sounds, smells, or events, Lusvardi says.
After reading this, I’m not sure the question was really answer. Lusvardi’s definition, of “a deep, persistent emotion tied to a perceived wrongdoing” might count as a grudge for a cat avoiding people or things that have done them harm. Like vacuum cleaners, for example.
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This paper from The Journal of Feline Medicine and Surgery shows that cats can behave differently, even under anesthesia, when they’re exposed to different types of music. They used a dozen cats who were being spayed. Click below to read:
Here’s a summary of the whole paper from the Abstract, which is quite convenient:
Objectives
The aims of the study were to recognise if there is any auditory sensory stimuli processing in cats under general anaesthesia, and to evaluate changes in respiratory rate (RR) and pupillary diameter (PD) in anaesthetised patients exposed to different music genres, while relating this to the depth of anaesthesia.
Methods
A sample of 12 cats submitted for elective ovariohysterectomy was exposed to 2 min excerpts of three different music genres (classical [CM], pop [PM] and heavy metal [HM]) at three points during surgery (T1 = coeliotomy; T2 = ligature placement and transection of the ovarian pedicle; T3 = ligature placement and transection of the uterine body). A multiparametric medical monitor was used to measure the RR, and a digital calliper was used for PD measurement. Music was delivered through headphones, which fully covered the patient’s ears. P values <0.05 were considered to be statistically significant.
Results
Statistically significant differences between stimuli conditions for all surgical points were obtained for RR (T1, P = 0.03; T2, P = 0.00; T3, P = 0.00) and for PD (T1, P = 0.03; T2, P = 0.04; T3, P = 0.00). Most individuals exhibited lower values for RR and PD when exposed to CM, intermediate values to PM and higher values to HM.
Conclusions and relevance
The results suggest that cats under general anaesthesia are likely to perform auditory sensory stimuli processing. The exposure to music induces RR and PD variations modulated by the genre of music and is associated with autonomic nervous system activity. The use of music in the surgical theatre may contribute to allowing a reduced anaesthetic dose, minimising undesirable side effects and thus promoting patient safety.
There was also a control, and if you read the paper you’ll see the differences aren’t huge, with some not statistically significant (expected with just a dozen cats). Clearly, vets should not only play music to cats when they’re under anesthesia, but classical music. Heavy metal gave the worst results, so clearly cats can not only hear the music, but have good taste. But I doubt you can persuade your vet to play Bach to your moggie while she’s getting spayed.
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Lagniappe:
Reader Enrico found a great sale on a book about wild cats. A 50-buck book for only eleven dollars! To wit:
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Lagniappe #2: a weird video with a cat and deer. Click to watch:
Privacy breached : Four deer, Zero boundaries
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h/t: Ginger K., Gary






























