Photos of readers

May 29, 2020 • 2:45 pm

Oops! I found a few readers who had contributed but whose emails I’ve missed. So there are three in the queue, and now two, as today we’re going to meat Rik Gern, who has contributed photos before.

I hope you’re not going stir crazy!

Here are two submissions for your Photos of Readers feature. Both of these images reflect aspects of my reaction to several months of living the shelter at home lifestyle.

I’ve lost 80% of my work (and counting!) since COVID 19 hit and don’t know if I’ll have a career left when this is all over, so naturally I’ve spent some time worrying and overthinking an uncertain future. I’ve also spent more time than usual playing around digitally manipulating images, so the first picture reflects both anxiety and the escape from worry that playing with a toy like Photoshop affords.

Fortunately, ennui is only a small part of what I’ve been feeling. An optimist at heart, I get up early and start every day with a cup of coffee, a workout and some yoga, so no matter what the rest of the day brings, the first part is always good. There has been plenty of time to get outside and work in the yard, and even though I’m no one’s idea of a handyman–I have to go to night school to learn to use a hammer!–it’s been nice to be able to catch up on fence repair, weeding and tree and hedge trimming. The second picture shows me tending the compost pile. I might not have a garden, but I’m growing a bumper crop of dirt!

[Both pictures were taken by my friend Hanno Braun and altered by yours truly.]

23 thoughts on “Photos of readers

  1. Some great photos. You might want to try some professional comedy Rik. Night school for a hammer….

    1. If you do make it to nightschool Rik I might need you to remind me which way to turn a screwdriver – and which end is the handle. (For clarity, no Trumpesque “sarcasm” intended – as my wife will happily attest, no doubt!)

      1. Nice. My wife was a member of COA (Clowns of America) and spent a lot of time at one point teaching others how to apply make up and so forth. Got me to do it too but I didn’t stick with it. Tried my hand at magic and such to entertain. I hope you are soon able to resume as the world could use a few laughs nowadays.

          1. Great stuff. My dad (89 last week) was an actor and also proud to a spent a lifetime in a career not known for its longevity.

          2. Great stuff. My dad (89 last week) was an actor and also proud to have spent a lifetime in a career not known for its longevity.

  2. I am so sorry for those like you who are now pretty much unemployed through no fault of your own. It is a disaster on so many levels, considering a comparatively small number of people are dying (world population increases by well over 1 million a week).
    ☹️

    1. It’s gonna be rough on a lot of levels, but I’ll be alright as a person, since I only have myself to take care of. I really feel for the people with mouths to feed; the ones who are taking care of children, parents, and other dependants.

  3. I am interested in the usage of ‘yard’ as opposed to garden. Is garden used only for formal gardens with flower beds & the like. With yard being like a grassed/ gravelled area fenced in with no flowers? Or…?

    1. Yeah, referring to ‘yard’ as the grassy part whereas a ‘garden’ would have planted flowers and/or veggies. I’m lazy though; if something pretty grows in the yard I just let it grow; that way I get to experience the pleasure of some of those endless forms most beautiful without having to work too hard.

  4. I wish you the best of luck when it comes to your employment circumstances. I really hope things start looking up soon.

    I never used to look at the reader photos or read their submissions, but I’ve started doing so in the last few weeks. In some strange way, the COVID-19 pandemic has made me feel a greater kinship with strangers. Another example: while I’ve always been extremely polite to people who work in services/forward-facing jobs (cashiers, retail workers, customer support, waiters, etc.), I’ve started striking up conversations with them. I had an amusing conversation with the secretary at a doctor’s office this morning, during which we both laughed. I’ve always been very polite because I know from experience that one nice person can make an employee’s day much easier and sometimes even give them a smile, but now I try to do even more. I feel obligated to treat strangers as friends, especially when they’re doing difficult work (which usually also provides low pay). And I’m finding that people are responding in kind.

    Unfortunately, I’m ultimately a pessimist — or, as I like to say, “I’m a realist, which just makes me sound pessimistic” — so I’m nearly certain this friendliness won’t last for most people. But I’d like to be wrong. I’d really, really like to be wrong. I’d really like this terrible event to leave a lasting stamp on people because it made them more cognizant of the value and fragility of life, and in turn made them more congenial, caring, and feeling bound to all other people. But it almost surely won’t.

    I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to make your post about my feelings. I just hope things get better for you! And, of course, for everyone else who has been affected by this catastrophe.

    1. Also, apologies if I’ve offended anyone by not responding to their photos/submissions after having said the above. I still don’t read most of them, as they’re posted later in the day and I often don’t check this site after a certain time, and rarely do I go back to see if I missed posts from the previous day.

      1. You’re so right about the greater kinship with strangers! Certain social mores such as hands shakes, hugs and things like that will probably change and be replaced by something else, so who knows, maybe some of the newfound friendliness can be incorporated into the new greetings and social rituals?

          1. Rik, and BJ: excellent post and comments. “Been playing hookey for forty years and I’ve not been caught yet.” That’s good, Rik. Terrific comic actress, Athene Seyler, once said making people laugh is a wonderful thing to do, so I hope you’ll be able to play hookey again soon and continue making those connections.
            It is a grim time but I think all those millennia of evolution as a social species will assert themselves and we’ll adapt, helped no doubt by laughter and kindness to strangers. Best wishes to all.

  5. Rik, your creative photo makes me wonder if we’re all kinda morphing into something a little alien, during this time of Corona and isolation. Thanks for sharing.

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